How I Put Orgasms Back Into My Sex Life By taking Charge Of My Own

29 Jan 10

How I Put Orgasms Back Into My Sex Life By taking Charge Of My Own

No big secrets here, I simply moved from waiting on my selfish lover to finally discover how and when to do what to me – I took control myself. I must admit that now I am becoming quite an expert on self-stimulation.

Orgasms get better and more powerful every time you have one, so why not work at getting one every day. All women should enjoy this luxury and the best of it – orgasms come for free.

Discount sex toys have moved from dark sex shops to becoming desired objects sold at private parties. Make sure you do not miss out on this fun.

Most ladies go wrong in that they think a sex toy will take them to orgasm within seconds after they started using it and then usually loose interest real soon. You know your body and thus why expect to orgasm in seconds. This is your chance to take yourself to orgasm at the pace and intensity you enjoy most. The build up starts at waking up in the morning – horny from last night.

At the office, use a discreet and small vibrator to sit just inside your pussy. Keep the vibrations low and enjoy doing your Kegel exercises whilst being tickled. This build up will get you in the mood for fun later in the evening.

The homeward journey should be the next step to your orgasm. Look around and see the women all dreading to go home, but you have a different going home experience – I use some of the heating lotions especially made to add sensation to the pussy just before I leave for home.

By the time I get home I am ready to orgasm, but I keep myself by doing my evening chores with a smile of expectation. Only when I finally slip into my bath do I let myself go completely.

Lying back in a hot bath I focus all my attention on my clit as I tease it with the tickler side of the dildo. I start with larger circles round my vagina working it closer and closer inwards until I touch the tip of my clitoris. Then all the way back to the outside circle again.

There is no rush, but after a while your clit will be begging for a bit more attention than a simple mere touch. Now is the time to work the rounded head over the whole of your pussy, but never entering yourself. Simply open up slightly and stop for a while on the clit.

Because of the edging, you will soon feel the first lovely signs of an orgasm coming up. Do not stop this time and let yourself explode as many times as you want, enjoying very second of your orgasm that you worked for all day long.

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